Saturday, March 7, 2009

Are you a Lion or a Lamb?

Calling all Lionesses!

Hello and welcome to March. It surely did come in like a lion and I hope it has roared itself out so the lamb can start sticking her head out.

But if you are a business person, this is no time to be a lamb. In order to be heard you really have to roar. And to be seen, you really need to roam the jungle and build up your pride (pride of lions and self pride!)

The best way to accomplish this is network, network, network. And the most cost effective networking is with eWomenNetwork.

Did you know for the price of one membership you have membership in all the chapters across the country and Canada?

Think about it. How many chambers do you belong to? Do you pay dues to each chamber? Of course! Or how about a professional organization? Don't you have to pay to belong to a chapter in Philadelphia and the chapter in South Jersey?

With eWomenNetwork, you have 5, count 'em 5, opportunities to network across the tri-state area with just one membership!

--South Jersey (Burlington to Cape May!!)
--Philadelphia
--Buxmont (Bucks-Montgomery County)
--King of Prussia
--and as of April....Wilmington, DE

At eWomenNetwork our goal is to provide you access to everyone--no geographic boundaries in our business plan!

So no matter how far you want to roam, eWomenNetwork has a road map to help your success ROAR!

Here's my Lioness special of the month:

Non-members: Join eWomenNetwork in March and be my guest at your first event as a new member! To join visit: http://www.ewomennetwork.com/joinUsNow_2.html

Members: Sign up a new member this month and you BOTH have a free event on me!

It's a jungle out there...why not hang out with Queens of the Jungle.

All the best to you,
Marilyn
Executive Director
eWomenNetwork SJ
609 601-1333

Saturday, February 14, 2009

Food For Thought: Adding New Ingredients Can Reshape Your Success Recipe

Although it is often said, it bears repeating "If you keep doing what you're doing, you'll keep getting what you're getting." Not rocket science, but how many of us have really taken a look at what we are doing...what are the ingredients in our daily plan of work and how can we "spice it up" to change the results?

Sometimes you have to start with what is important to yourself. Are you happy with what you are doing? If not, what are you going to do about it?

On February 20th at the Atlantic City Country Club we'll meet Roseann Vanella who did just that. She took stock of what she had accomplished, took measure of her happiness quotient and decided to change her menu of choices. In 2007 she walked away from the corporate world to follow a passion for food and opened a Super Suppers business catering to busy families by offereing fully cooked meals to go. Join us we we learn about her Recipe for Success.

Okay, so now you've looked at yourself; now what about your business? Here your ingredients include the green vegetable...money. Are you making the best decisions with managing your money? Are you worried that you did not plan for tax season? Are you preparing a recipe for success or disaster at tax time?

Join us on March 4th at the Mansion on Main Street for a half-day workshop on How to Make Tax Time Less Taxing. Hear from a panel of experts tax saving tips and strategies to manage your personal and business finances. Learn about corporate structures and the difference between a corporate entity, a Limited Liability Company (LLC), a S-Corp, and sole proprietorship. Meet experts on money management and tax saving opportunities. Learn about employment law and how it effects your hiring practices including full time, part time or contract employees. Get tips on using QuickBooks to keep your pulse on money management and tax preparation. And finally meet an expert on organizing it all.

So you've got your passion, you've got your money organized, but what about marketing? What are the ingredients in your marketing plan? In today's world if your recipe doesn't call for a heavy dollop of social media, your marketing will fall flat.

On March 20th at the Gourmet Italian Cuisine in Galloway Township we'll host part one of a two part series exploring the phenomenon of Social Media. Learn the basics about the top social media websites, Facebook, LinkedIn, Plaxo, and Twitter. This hands on workshop (bring your laptop) will teach you how to create your profile, build contacts and navigate the various applications unique to each site.

At eWomenNetwork it is our job to provide you opportunite to learn, connect promote and build your business. For me, the most important ingredient is YOU.

To register for these and other upcoming events, visit eWomenNetwork SJ

Sunday, February 1, 2009

Get Connected. Get Involved. Get Busy!


All right ladies…It’s time to take control of your business, your lifestyle, and your future. There is no room for “woe is me”. There is no room for “Doubting Thomasinas.” There is no room for discouraging “voices in your head”. There is no room for negativity. Period.

The successful women I meet have at least one thing in common—their belief in themselves, what they are doing and where they are going. At eWomenNetwork we call that “GLOW”. They’ll also be the first to tell you its not 100% of the time. But here’s the key, they recognize when the candle starts to flicker and they find the spark that reignites the flame.

What do they do? They get connected. They call a friend or mentor. They find new people to add to their network who have fresh ideas, new approaches and new resources.

What do they do? They get involved. They look to their community for non-profit work or new organizations to re-energize their personal commitments. They volunteer, sit on boards and make themselves available.

What do they do? They get inspired. They read. They attend lectures and symposiums. They reach out to someone they admire. As Sandra Yancy, the Founder and CEO of eWomenNetwork says, “If she’s the sharpest tool in her tool box, she needs a new toolbox.”

What do they do? They get busy! They go out and seek new opportunities for business. They create new alliances and partnerships. They build new relationships.

What are you doing? Now is the time to join eWomenNetwork. We’ll get you connected, involved, inspired and BUSY!

eWomenNetwork is a membership based marketing and media company designed and created to provide women with opportunities to promote, grow and transact business with other women business professionals. We are a high tech, high touch organization with a focus on each member from a holistic point of view—healthy mind, healthy body, healthy business. Our events are designed to educate and enlighten so that we work smarter, with better tools and better understanding of the process of success. In addition, our strong web-based community is complimented by our monthly local events that bring women together to network, share and learn from each other. Our motto is Give First/Share Always. We teach women to build relationship by sharing our resources with each other and asking how we can help.

Please take a moment to visit our local chapter website at www.ewomennetworksnj.com and feel free to call me with any questions.

Monday, September 29, 2008

Need Inspiration? Check out the GLOW Project


All across the United States women are sitting down in small groups to experience the GLOW Project movie. Locally we've met over lunch, after work, and even on a Sunday afternoon. Just us girls--sharing the experience of watching the GLOW Project movie together and then sharing our hopes, our dreams and our passions.

What is GLOW? GLOW is a uniquely female phenomenon. When women GLOW, they burn the candle of passion and compassion that ignites a force greater than oneself.

Have you ever met someone and were drawn to them for their strength, their presence? Not in an intimidating way...but in the way that a flower turns towards the sun for warmth...for its GLOW.

The GLOW Project movie is an exploration in the source of that GLOW expressed though the stories of fourteen powerful, successful, entrepreneurs and corporate leaders. Each story reflects the hardships, the courage, the heartbreaks and challenges they faced and how they tapped into their GLOW to overcome; to survive; to succeed.

Reactions to the film vary, for it is an extremely personal experience. For s
ome, it is the rekindling of a desire to do or be more; for others is it is a realization that it's okay to be where I am right now in life--permission to be who I am; and for many it has empowered us to look inside to see what spark of inspiration is just waiting for that flame to ignite us.

On Wednesday, October 22, you can meet participate in a powerful event featuring three of the women
from the film when the GLOW Project tour comes to Voorhees, NJ at the Mansion on Main Street. To Register click here.

Sandra Yancey, producer and co-creator of the GLOW Project, is your personal guide as she leads and moderates an intimate discussion with two stars from the GLOW Project Movie.

  • Discover how to tap into your GLOW to achieve happiness and fulfillment
  • Learn how to overcome insurmountable challenges and reach for your dreams in spite of fear, lack of support and money
  • Learn how to work through feelings of guilt to fully enjoy your life experience
  • See clips from the movie and exclusive scenes not on the DVD
  • You participate -- Q & A session

No matter how hard you work, no matter how hard you try, you can never achieve your full potential and happiness without GLOW. Learn how to embrace your essence and forever live in GLOW.

You will meet Marion Luna Brem, President and CEO of Love Chrysler, who's' story of survival when given only 4-5 months to live will inspire us all to fight back no matter what the odds. And Donna Orender, President of the Women's National Basketball Association--who is blazing a trail in a previously male dominated sport. Her strength and conviction to her own truth is a lesson we all need to learn.

The truth is I can't even begin to describe the power of this event. All I can tell you is you need to be part of it.







Sunday, August 10, 2008

Dog(gy) Days of August

A funny thing happened on the way to the rest of my life--I actually got one. I never knew what I was missing until I moved in with Milt, his three teenage sons and two dogs.

Now, to be honest, I could live without the teenage sons, but I've come to absolutely love my furry new friends---allergies and all.

The little dog is a Jack Russell. Her name is Serenity. Unfortunately she got the short end of the twin thing and has shorten legs that make her hop like a bunny when she runs-- it's sad and oh so cute at the same time. Thankfully she also missed out on the crazy, loud, yippy, wild traits that most Jack Russells exhibit--except when she is outside and spots a rabbit, bird, bug or a ball with which she can play...and play...and play. It is a never ending game of fetch with Serenity.

She is also a lap dog and is happiest when sitting on Milt's chest or burrowed inside a bunch of covers.

The bigger dog is a boxer/lab and her name is Pippy. She has a wicked tail--don't get to close when she's happy, she'll leave scars! But what gets me is that she has the most soulful eyes--ya can't help but love her.

As the woman of the house I am, of course, the nurturer. This includes the making sure the dogs have food and water and, yes, I am the treat lady. So when Pippy looks up at me with those soulful eyes I turn to putty.

But is so worth it. I never understood, never experienced, and up to now, never missed the unrequited love that animals can provide. Pippy follows me all over the house and plops down in whatever room I happen to be in and when I go up the stairs, she waits at the bottom of the stairs for me.

When I open my door and look down I am filled with a sense of awe (or is that awww). I can't believe how attached we've become. In fact she is sitting right next to me as I write this blog. Yes, I know that ultimately she is here because the doggy treats are under my desk, but right now she's content to just "be with me" and that just melts my heart.

Plus I think we relate to each other. I can always tell when she wants to go out or needs food or water in her bowls. Than again, she's always hungry, so that's a no brainer.

I no longer care that I am allergic to her--that I sneeze when she sheds and that my hands break out when I touch her. Now I play with her, brush her hair and just love to have her around.

The dog days of August are here, and I'm doggone glad about it!

Sunday, July 20, 2008

2008 eWomenNetwork Conference Overview

One of the things that hits you when you attend the conference is that eWomenNetwork is such a powerful organization operating with the heart as its center and guiding force. With 2500+ women from all over the country and Canada in attendance the strength of the organization was dynamic. eWomenNetwork is so much more than a networking organization. We are a marketing and media powerhouse with tools and opportunities to help you promote your business to a larger audience. We are the “Big Idea” in the world of networking.

I am very proud to represent it here in South Jersey and hopefully in the years to come, central and north Jersey, too!

WOW...not only was that the theme of the conference, but it was the effect on all of us that were there. With one WOW moment after another, laughter and tears, smiles and hugs, positive energy and contagious confidence exuded from every room.

For me personally, it couldn't have come at a better time. My confidence and self esteem were loosing ground (you may not think that if you know or see me, but my negative inner voices were winning the battle inside me). I am sure you all know what I mean by inner voices, ya know the one that has to put a damper on all your "I can do it" thoughts.

Pretty tough to exude confidence, positiveness and leadership with all that "other" chatter going on in your head.

Speaker after speaker addressed these issues. Here's just a sampling:

  • Monica Wofford introduced us to the concept of "Contagious Confidence".
  • Robin Spizman asked us "Where's our Wow?"
  • Sandra Yancy lead us in a panel of "Fearless Women" who shared their stories of finding strength to stand tall and succeed in the face of failure.
  • And Alecia Huck reminded us that "Cinderella Doesn't Live Here Anymore" --that we need to take charge of our lives, give up perfecttion and get back to winning.
  • Marion Luna Brem share the "7 Greatest Truths about Successful Women"
  • Marci Shimoff implored us to get to the point where we can be "Happy for No Reason"
  • Janine Turner shared amazing stories of perseverance and resilience by daring to dream, healing with humor and never giving up before the miracle.
  • Sheila Stewart reminded us that women succeed "Backwards in High Heels" referencing Ginger Roger's famous line that women have additional challenges that we can and do overcome. FYI:-Sheila will be our featured speaker on February 4th, 2009.
  • The amazing Michael Gerber closed out the conference with "Awakening the Entrepreneur Within"

And then there is the Glow Project. This is an amazing documentary sharing the stories of 14 successful women and their search for passion...the flame that ignites the inner GLOW. Click on the link to see the trailer. The full length movie will be headed our way soon!

The International Femtor Awards should be sponsored by Kleenex because there was not a dry eye in the house. This event introduces us to the non-profit grant recipients that were selected by each chapter that raised $7,000 to sponsor the grant and announces the Emerging Leader recipient from each chapter that raised an additional $2,500 to sponsor a young woman between the ages of 22-29 who are already demonstrating excellence in the areas of academics, entrepreneurship and philanthropy. I have committed our chapter to sponsoring both for the 2009 conference.

We also recognize a Humanitarian of the Year. This year’s honoree is Joyce Sterkel. Joyce facilitates adoptions of children from orphanages in Russia. She has been involved in successful experiences with US based families for many years. In some cases families who had difficulties would contact her out of frustration or desperation and she began to try to be of assistance to them. She offered respite to the family struggling with a child who had adaptive challenges and took on the kids to help them ease into their new circumstances more easily.

She opened Ranch for Kids after recognizing the needs were greater than she personally had capacity for. She, her husband and older children became the staff and caregivers for children who, due to abusive or traumatic childhood histories, often accompanied by issues related to fetal alcohol syndrome, were violent and rebellious in their adoptive families.

The Managing Directors were so moved by Joyce’s story and by the story of two young girls that accompanied her that we decided to pledge $250 per chapter to raise money to help her continue doing such great work.

If you were unaware of the dedication and commitment of Sandra and Kym Yancy, the founders of eWomenNetwork, to the Foundation, the non-profits honored in the past and present, the Emerging Leaders and Rising Stars amongst us and the women who rise above to serve others, this event left no room for doubt. They walk the talk—give first/share always.

And finally, after the tears of compassion dried, we shared tears of laughter. We learned about the need to embrace change in our lives through Judson Laipply’s Evolution of Dance (ladies you MUST check this out…we were practically on the floor laughing). And later we learned about trust and teamwork with world renowned juggling team, The Passing Zone. (Yes, you must check this out too!)

We shopped, drank, eat and boogied at the blowout party Nordstom’s hosted for us Friday night after normal closing hours. It was, as I heard some of our younger members say, “Off the hook!” And before we could recover from that party, we were back out dancing and drinking chocolate martini’s at the Evening of Chocolate Decadence.

Like I said, it was a total WOW experience. I hope you can join me next year when we do it all over again!

Saturday, July 5, 2008

Does Wearing Two Hats Look Funny?

So how many of you have more than one job or own more than one business? I do and I have to admit, sometimes the sailor hat (CruiseOne) and the networking hat--whatever that looks like to you (eWomenNetwork) don't always wear well together.

But, more often than not, they really do compliment each other.

When I first decided to purchase a CruiseOne franchise in 2005 I based my decision on two things: the growing trend towards cruise vacations and the idea of helping people have fun.

When I first decided to purchase the rights to start a new eWomenNetwork chapter in Southern Jersey in 2007 I did so with two things in mind: the growing trend of small women owned businesses and the idea of helping women build and enrich their personal and professional lives.

Clearly helping people is an important focus of both.

However balancing the two isn't always easy. Because both businesses require responding to people in a timely manner, I can't split my day and say that the morning is CruiseOne and the afternoon is eWomenNetwork.

Another dilemma is what business to market or promote. For the first six months on Blogger I listed myself as a travel professional in the cruise business. I decided to change it tonight (thus the focus of this blog) to highlight eWomenNetwork.

Clearly all eWomenNetwork members or prospects are also CruiseOne prospects, but not necessarily the other way around--many of my initial cruise contacts are male.

Those that receive e-mails from me can see from my signature that I run both business ...what they may not have noticed is that I flip flop the companies depending on the topic. In other words, if you've e-mailed me about a cruise, then I put the CruiseOne signature on top...but if you later e-mail about eWomenNetwork, then I flip that signature to the top (at least I try to remember to do that!)

But I guess my question still remains....does it look funny to see both signatures? More importantly, does it confuse you or lessen the importance of one over the other?

My view is that I try to be upfront and honest with everyone that both are my businesses and both are important to me.

So, I ask you, to quote one of my favorite shows..."How do I look?"